Letter to BM 4/7/24

 

Hi laddu

Patterns 

Just my thoughts on what I observed and I believe this will help me to better manage conversations with you 

1. I understand that when I talk about items which could be about deviation from an already agreed arrangement I must deliver with proper narrative on what is the change. Even I do that , do expect a certain  from your end to which I need to give time for you to come out of it . Hence use calls where I have time to communicate such change in plans 
2. If there is a disagreement ( expectation alignment  such a why audio call and no video call )on an item ,how silly it could be , there is a possibility of alignment questions from both our sides . This alignment question will or may take the form of an argument and might stretch for minutes often me being ended up sounding frustrated . Instead of spending time on taking or communicating what need to be shared the conversation will continue on a different direction and might end up in a loop. Hence the action shall be to early identify such a loop scenario and tell upfront why I am doing something certain way . 

Love 

J

Ok this I kind of a playbook I am developing and may be useful in ideal situations but not always .