journey called life

Saturday, May 04, 2024

Letter to BM 5/5/2024

 Going to church now 

Updates

Home now . I didn’t stay till the end . No luck with my school crush . May be next time . 

I need to pack now . Nothing much, just make sure I don’t forget anything . I gave notice for May room in sg . I may need to forfeit my advance and need to pay some share of agent fee. Better I do that else when I come back it will be difficult to find a place to stay . My flight is at 11:10 , I might leave around 7:30 . 

Dh told me something while taking about partner number 3 and all yesterday. I was like how about increasing he number to 3 . Then she said , she have no problem , she said “ I am selfishly wishing for your happiness”. As long you are happy then it is ok for me”. 

I did shared about the “why” episode with M with Dh. She was also saying M trying to be a typical wife . You may need to set the tone for your sanity . 




posted by enjoyinlife at 9:53 PM

16 Comments:

  • Back home now . Just chilling a bit

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:47 PM  

  • Dh wants bhb2..haha..done with dosa, we will eat now..

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:29 PM  

  • J, again pardon me for being stupid...u have dh to share wats going on with ur partner, to be crazy, many more things... do i add anything extra being in ur life? Just say once there r many things which u couldn't share with anyone but just me..(ignoring chi chi). I don't know J y i act so at times.. sorry

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:33 PM  

  • I again had small ... don't know wat to say..with M.. spoke my mind

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 12:14 AM  

  • hey R, ( ignore this if not required) Please choose your battles carefully . Please let things go if possible. You know he is super stressed at work. even if you want to express your mind, please be super kind and sweet, say it in a good tone. Please try.
    If possible to hold back, please do that or ask for more Information before making any comments. I am also trying this with M to take the "why" questions. you need to make more love than arguments ( just joking) ...

    Story ( please dont apply any context, its just a story)
    Once a wife and husband went for counselling. Husband was saying, Wife is always picking a fight. whatever I say, she debates with me. I am scared to express anything these days. May be she is not happy with something. Wife said, he dont listen to me most of the time. whenever I say something he just say that I am arguing. the communication between us is very terrible.
    The doctor gave them a medicine in a bottle to both and asked them to take it ( just hold it in the mouth) while they feel like having an argument. the coupled went and came back after a month. They were like, doctor your medicine worked wonders. we dont argue these days. we take the medicine on time and no fights. later we Talk about it when we are calm. the medicine is now finished can you please prescribe it again.
    Doctor said, it is not medicine, it is just water. Now you know how to manage an argument . please practice it everyday and you will be fine.

    By Anonymous J, at 12:42 AM  

  • Watching a movie . Wanted to sleep but I couldn’t

    By Anonymous J, at 7:15 AM  

  • Pagal ho thum , you know that I looked with beard and still want me to keep it . Stupid

    By Anonymous J, at 8:05 AM  

  • Going to airport

    By Anonymous J, at 10:54 AM  

  • Highlights of my day was opportunities to look at my laddu . You are glowing my love . Mera nazar lag gaye for sure . I can only sing Enna sonna ..
    I noticed something. When you smile , your natural lip movement is that it will move sideways . But you consciously control that and press your lips down and don’t move it side ways .. that gives a different look to your face .. with lips wide it is another look .. hmm .. my girl has got a beautiful smile

    By Anonymous J, at 12:14 PM  

  • I am taking another flight dear
    I wish the destination was towards you
    But it is fine that the next one
    Is definitely towards you

    By Anonymous J, at 1:04 PM  

  • J, task was to prepare 2 process mom in deatil..i could do only 1 that too half..i am too sleepy...Twill do tomorrow morning.

    u looked so funny in ur own french beard style, was in aunts house and i couldnt resist laugh...

    J, i can never make u understand wat u mean to me..u alway feel we will drift away..i made u my soul mate, had ur letter on my body which will stay with me even after my death..now before u go far i asked u a ring-a ring in ur name which i wanna wear always..apart from this if u want to know how committed i m only thing i need to do is register our marriage...but marriage will gaurantee we wont drift?? even being married we fell for each other.. so its upto us we stay ya go...really ur msg brought tears in my eyes..i will stick till i die and i know...if u ve doubt on u and u preparing for anything ya everything then its upto u....i will stick to u atleast in this blog if u arent availble ya go away kabhi due to circumstance...

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:41 PM  

  • i am feeling giddiness(chkkar) will sleep now...Thank u for making me feel speacil again with ur words and i will not seek ur validation kabhi..i know wat i am to u..try to get some sleep once u reach..msg here once u reach home..hope key is settled and shouldnt face any issue at immigration

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:44 PM  

  • I never doubt us my love but our circumstances. I can only pray that we can still find each other some way and stay connected. I will be always around and I know you will be too .

    By Anonymous J, at 5:36 PM  

  • I just landed . Flight was early . I can get some sleep before starting i guess .
    Looking forward to catching up with u when you come online

    By Anonymous J, at 5:38 PM  

  • Room now . Will take a nap . Flat mate kept the room open . All good . I guess I will wake up before you anyways

    By Anonymous J, at 6:48 PM  

  • Take rest

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 7:20 PM  

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